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Tom's Blog http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog Join me on my exciting adventures in Georgia Sun, 17 Feb 2008 15:16:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 en Review: The Glenwood http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=141 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=141#comments Sun, 17 Feb 2008 15:16:18 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=141 For the past few weeks I’ve been thinking about reviewing the places I go out to eat in the Atlanta area. I typically go out to eat five to seven times a week, so I am familiar with many local restaurants.. The problem is that when it comes time to pick somewhere to eat I can’t remember what I enjoyed about the place. My goal here isn’t to tell anyone where to eat, but instead to just keep track of the different places I’ve eaten at and what I thought of them.

To kick off my first blog on the dining scene I’m going to review a restaurant /bar I went to last night called The Glenwood located off of Glenwood Ave. in Atlanta. I met 4 other people there for a late night dinner around 10:00pm, which by that time the bar scene was in full swing. We were lucky enough to get a booth, which was private considering how busy the place was. The beer list was extensive, but since I wasn’t there for drinks I couldn’t tell you how good any of them were.  From what I hear, the beer selection is the main attraction of The Glenwood.

I was brave enough to order a Cheese Steak sandwich, which in the normal bar environment it would be best not to order cheese on anything. The food didn’t take too long to come out, and once it arrived I didn’t regret the choice of ordering a Cheese Steak at a bar. The food wasn’t too greasy, and these cheese tasted fresh and complimented the steak perfectly. The problem with the sandwich was that a Cheese Steak is supposed to be a little greasy, instead it tasted dry. I downed a whole lot of Diet Coke to help me finish the over cooked steak sandwich.

The highlight of The Glenwood was the service. One of the girls at our table ordered onion rings which were overflowing on the plate. Since our fries weren’t nearly so impressive the cook brought us out a bowl full of fries to share without us making any mention of the lack of fries. I don’t know how many times our super nice waitress filled up my Diet Coke, but it must have been at least five times. She was right on top of things, and always very friendly. When it came time for the check she gave us a check together instead of splitting it, then we had to figure out how much each of us wanted to pay. I thought that was a bit awkward, but aside from that she was great.

If friends wanted to go back to The Glenwood for the beer I would certainly go along, but it wasn’t the sort of place that I’d frequent for the food. I imagine that if we arrived earlier in the evening it would have been much better but at 10:00pm the food was dry and bland. The environment was nice, though a bit too loud for my taste. Atlanta isn’t smoke free, however there weren’t too many people smoking inside which made it comfortable.

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blogging from my phone http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=140 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=140#comments Thu, 07 Feb 2008 07:24:40 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=140 so you all know already i like the technology. well i may have just taken it to new level. i now have an interface i can use to write blogs from my cell phone. its almost 2:30am so i should go to bed but i just had to test it first!

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A New Addiction http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=138 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=138#comments Mon, 07 Jan 2008 12:39:09 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=138 I’ve recently managed to get myself addicted to the internet. I’m not talking about internet porn, nope I’ve actually quit Final Fantasy Online and joined World of Warcraft (something I never wanted to do)! It is a very sad day, and last night was my first time staying up late on a work night playing it.

So far I’m really not that addicted; between starting a new relationship and work I don’t have as much time as is required to get addicted to a game. I’m just glad I didn’t pick this up during my Christmas vacation. So my druid is now level 8, two more levels and he’ll be able to show up on my FaceBook profile.

Speaking of that I recently joined facebook.com. For those interested,  my name is Tom Bohan in the Atlanta, GA network. Thats about all the updates I have time for this morning. It’s time to get ready for work now!

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Santa defeats Jesus http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=135 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=135#comments Sat, 29 Dec 2007 20:47:59 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=135 What is the purpose of Christmas? Some people make a big deal about bringing Christ back in Christmas, but he was never really there to begin with. According to Wikipedia, Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus not the birth day of Jesus. In fact Christmas was implemented to offer a holiday to compete with the pagan celebration of the winter solstice. This holiday takes away what faith is by basing the entire holiday around Santa; a man that does not exist, instead of around Jesus who the church contends, did exist. Wikipedia tells us Christmas is:

A winter festival was traditionally the most popular festival of the year in many cultures. Reasons included less agricultural work needing to be done during the winter, as well as people expecting longer days and shorter nights after the winter solstice in the Northern Hemisphere. In part, the Christmas celebration was created by the early Church in order to entice pagan Romans to convert to Christianity without losing their own winter celebrations. Certain prominent gods and goddesses of other religions in the region had their birthdays celebrated on December 25, including Ishtar, Sol Invictus and Mithras.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas

If you know me then you know me then you know I’m very interested in religion but don’t believe in any specific religion. I was raised Christian however I lost my faith early on. It wasn’t due to any traumatic event  like many people; instead I lost my faith because I stopped believing things without sufficient evidence. Growing up I was the type of kid that wanted to know everything. I’d ask many random questions to understand the world better, and would never settle for an answer without an explanation.

However, I never questioned the existence of god as a child. It was as real to me as gravity or that two plus two equaled four. That is until I met Santa. You see to me Santa was not a social figure, he was closely tied to my understanding of God. This is because Santa could do special things beyond the abilities of a normal man; he must be blessed by God. However as a child you hear rumors about Santa not being real, so I decided I need to prove it once and for all. When I discovered that ‘Santa’ was actually my mother getting up late I began questioning religion. Of course since I was young at the time I didn’t realize I was questioning religion, however looking back on it I see that Christmas as the moment I lost my ability to believe without reason.

You see Santa has all of these special abilities which fly in the face of reason (flying reindeer, going down chimneys, being able to visit more than a house a second). As a child I knew this was not possible, but I believed it anyway because society was so convinced it was true. This is much like the existence of god, I know that saving animal species by putting them on a boat while the world is flooded will not work. However God made it work in the face of reason. But once you require proof to believe in God you have lost your faith, because religion is not something that can be proven. It requires a leap of faith, the same leap that was required to believe in Santa is required to believe on God. For me not only the belief in Santa was broken, but the entire idea of believing in something without reason was destroyed.

I know that there are many reasons why people stop believing in God, but I know I can’t be the only one that was foiled by my belief in Santa. I wonder if the decline of Christianity is in part a result of the commercialization of  Christmas. In truth Christmas adds nothing to the belief in God, we listen to stories of the birth of Christ, which didn’t even happen on this sacred day. We don’t ever talk about the moral ideas Jesus brought to us later in his life, which it seems should be the focus of the church. If people can believe in Jesus as a prophet first it would set a foundation for belief in Jesus as the Son of God.

Of course it is already too late for me, I will continue to question everything in life. I just wonder why the church thinks that it is important to celebrate Christmas as a religious holiday, instead of as the social holiday it is.

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Dating Rules http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=133 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=133#comments Wed, 19 Dec 2007 04:09:45 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=133 I’ve decided to make some general guidelines for myself for dating based on some of the things I’ve found over the past few months. These are personal ‘red flags’ when I start dating someone. As I continue to date I’ll update this list, maybe this could even be used to figure out what is truly important to me in a relationship.

  1. If you think I’m going to hell because I don’t believe what you do then we’re not going to work out. I understand that you want to spend your eternity with whoever it is that you fall in love with. If you feel like you’re going to need to get me ’saved’ to have me with you when you die then we might be better as friends. I like religious people just fine, as long as they don’t feel the need to impose their beliefs on me for us to be successful.
  2. If you’re still growing up I’d love it if you got back in touch with me when you feel you’re an adult. If you don’t know who you are I don’t want to tell you who you should be. I’m looking for a relationship where we both contribute the good in ourselves to make each other better people. You need to have something to offer me as well. I’m looking for someone I could end up in a long term relationship with. Don’t you want to know you can make it by yourself before you start to settle down?
  3. If I can see you getting wasted in a picture on the personals site I’m not the guy for you. MySpace is great for drunk pictures with your friends, but you should be putting your best foot forward on a personals site. Is the best picture of you have of yourself really taken when you’re drunk?
  4. If you can’t motivate yourself to take care of your physical appearance, what makes you think you can motivate yourself to put forth the effort required for a relationship? I personally am a little overweight, and I am attracted to other people that have a few extra pounds so I’m not trying to say you need to be a playboy bunny. However you should put forth the effort required to look nice. Things like brushing your hair (and teeth) are important before a date. Different people are attractive in different ways, but as a general rule of thumb I should weigh more than any woman I date.
  5. If you haven’t had a serious relationship in your past I think there is good reason for it. That doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, but it does mean something is going on there. Do you know what that something is? Are you over it now? If not then please identify what the problem is and resolve it. Maybe you were too devoted to school and not interested in anything serious. Thats fine, if you’re ready for more than friends with benefits lets talk. Otherwise come back when you’re ready.
  6. If at any point during or before our first date I think to myself “I feel sorry for her ex” you’re probably not getting a call back. The way you treat others in your past relationships is a clear indicator of how you will treat me. Yes that does include cheating because I feel sorry for anyone who was cheated on.
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Working on the Weekend http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=132 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=132#comments Sun, 02 Dec 2007 02:03:58 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=132 This past week has been the week from hell at work… not that anything bad has happened to me, but a lot has happened with the system I’m responsible for. Because this is such a big problem a few of us decided to work through the weekend on the project. So right now I’m sitting at my desk at home clicking a ‘Go’ button all day long to generate the data needed for the queries we’re going to be running.

I really don’t feel all that into blogging right now actually… its been a long day and I need to unwind someway. The problem is that I’d like to take a nice long warm bath, but at the same time I want some social interaction because I haven’t had any all day. So since taking the laptop into the bath tub might not be the greatest idea I need to think of something else to do.

Also, for those that haven’t already had to listen to me complain… Candace and I aren’t dating anymore. I just can’t keep going back and worth with someone… way too emotionally draining for me. Oh well, on to better things…

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crazy thanksgiving weekend http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=131 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=131#comments Tue, 27 Nov 2007 01:22:34 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=131 thanksgiving weekend started out well enough. we got out of work early on wednesday and ran a few errands. i picked out a new pair of dress pants for thanksgiving dinner since i wanted to look presentable. i shopped around for the pants for quite a while and probably bothered the people in the department stores. i tried on suits to figure out my size, but i ended up not buying. some of them we’re pretty frustrated with that i think. after i picked out a nice pair of pants that fit me well i went to the eye doctor got my eye glasses straightened. it is amazing how bent they get in just a couple of months, i’m not sure if i sleep on them or whats going on but they feel SOOO much better now. after getting my glasses fixed i got a hair cut from the place i usually go in alpharetta. this time i got john, the owner to cut my hair. he did an amazing job and i feel very confident about my haircut. he even did something a little different with my goatee and sideburns which looks MUCH better. i ended the day feeling very sexy about myself.

thursday was a rainy thanksgiving day. i initially had intended to go on a hike, but with the ground being so wet i thought better of it. instead i stayed home and reorganized my stereo equipment. i got everything onto one stand (including the tv) so i could move the other stand to the bedroom. this gave me so much more room and really helped to open up the living room a bit. besides a little cleaning and reorganization i didn’t do too much during the day. in the evening i went to a co-workers home. i got to meet some new people, one of which is a researcher for cnn. it was very fun to talk to interesting new people, and of course the food was wonderful. i brought the wii over to his place to entertain the kids that were there. it was a pretty big hit, and i think that in the end some of the adults wished they had tried it out.

on black friday i had a wonderful time with work. we had someone causing issues for us and it occupied way too much of the day. between monitoring the logs i did manage to take a two hour hike during which i got to talk to candace’s daughter  on IM (via my phone). she is such a sweet little girl; she even told me she loved me which was very awesome! it certainly made me smile.

the work problems continued into saturday with a new problem. i discover late saturday night that our site was partially down and we were never notified via email. it was very frustrating, but i ended up getting it back up quickly. unfortunately i spent half the day today in meetings discussing the aftermath and what we can do to detect problems earlier.

because i was up wayyyyyy late last night (4:30am) chatting on the phone i am dead tired now. i think i’m going to go sit in front of the tv and watch heroes (hopefully i can stay awake). i’ll try to update this more frequently. i’m going shopping in augusta tomorrow  so that should be exciting. i’ve never been there before. lets hope its a good time!

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posting more often… soon http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=130 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=130#comments Thu, 22 Nov 2007 16:41:04 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=130 Well I’ve done it again, I neglected my blog for quite some time. Other things just always seem to come up, and a lot of things I think of lately are more personal than I would put in the public section of this blog. Rest assured, an update is coming soon… just not right now. I’m going to go see if I can get in an hour and a half long hike before I head to a friends for Thanksgiving dinner.

To those I haven’t talked to already, HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

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toys for me! http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=127 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=127#comments Thu, 08 Nov 2007 21:50:06 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=127 When my father visited me last he mentioned he had a stereo receiver laying around his house gathering dust. He offered to send it to me, and since mine was on the fritz I said yes. After a couple of delays he finally ended up sending it, but instead of an old one laying around it was a brand new one. Don’t get me wrong, I certainly appreciate it but he really didn’t have to buy me a new one. Anyways, it was a good thing I was working from home today. As soon as the FedEX guy delivered it I had it setup within an hour. That must be the sign of a geek.

So its all hooked up but since I’m working I haven’t taken the opportunity to watch a movie on it yet. I’ve been meaning to finish watching Sicko, so that’s my plan for tonight. Though now that I’m thinking about it I’m really kinda ‘blah’ about watching a movie.  I’ve been feeling really lonely today, despite talking to Candace for longer than usual. I guess when I talked to her every night for 3 hours or more I was so over stimulated with her company that I didn’t need anyone else. Now that we only talk occasionally, and rarely about anything beyond how our day was, I feel like I need more social interaction. I suppose that is normal, most people don’t just get so involved with one person that they ignore everyone else.

On top of not talking to Candace so much I worked from home today. Most people would consider that a nice perk, while it does mean I eat a lot healthier it also means that I miss out on any social interaction for the day. So the only person I saw today was the FedEx guy. How sad is that?  I will get over it, but I really should use my loneliness to motivate myself to make some new friends.  Honestly, Candace has a daughter and lives with her family. She has other obligations, and I just have me. I really need to get my own social life under control if I want the chance at a relationship.

I could go to the gym and get a membership - that might be a good way to make friends. The problem is that I tend to not get along well with other guys. Drinking and sports aren’t for me, and those are the two ways guys tend to relate to each other. Not all guys of course, but probably the kinds of guys I’d meet at a gym. Making friends with girls also doesn’t work because I always feel unless they are married or engaged that they think I’m looking for a booty call. I don’t know, social interactions are difficult for me. I just over think things too much.

That said, I’m going to stop over thinking things and get me a drink of water…

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back to the gym http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=126 http://tom.bohanonline.com/blog/?p=126#comments Wed, 07 Nov 2007 12:49:56 +0000 admin http://www.bregan.info/tbohan/blog/?p=126 i kept good on last nights ramblings and went to the gym this morning. i’m very proud of myself, I walked on the treadmill at a fairly quick pace for 20 minutes which isn’t half bad. then after i did 3 reps on 3 different upper body exercises on the weight machines.

i even resisted the temptation of watching the Heroes episode i missed instead of working out. go me! now i just need to keep up with it.

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